Speak Carefully and Judiciously

Words spoken from our mouth for others will never return but will leave a deep impact on the mind of people to whom you have spoken them. If you speak harsh with someone than the probability is more that the person will remember your harsh words for a long time in his memory. Even if you do great things for a person but one bad talk can spoil your image.

Always chose words carefully and judiciously while you talk to other irrespective of their age.  You can find many examples in society from people who are very successful in life that they speak very carefully while expressing their views. The art of expressing the negative comments with right set of words and expression can make you better person in the eye of others.

Never lose your temper fast while responding to another person even if you don’t agree with other person’s opinion or talk. Your maturity in responding to such person can change the opinion of person in front of you in your favor within matter so few sentences.

Keep this simple rule in life to be good to others while you talk to them and get the same from them without doubt.

First Practice Yourself Before You Preach To Others

Often we have seen the tendency to expect something from others around us but we never bother to check self on it. It is always a one way approach. If you expect something from others than you should also be ready to do the same to the others so that they also feel that you are giving them what they expect from you.

Generally you will find very fewer people who preach and follow the same. If you practice the same before you preach others the chances are more that you will leave a deep impression on others mind and they will reciprocate you with their best.

Do the same to others what you expect to get from others. If you make this simple rule in your life you will make great success.

Fifteen Points To Reduce Rape Cases – In India

  1. Enough laws are in place already, courts need to have the guts to close the rape cases in maximum 3 months
  2. No need for years of hearings please (local court->district court->High court->Supreme court)
  3. Treat people below 18 years as adult in such cases and give full sentence
  4. More actions from society and citizens required in these cases rather than discussing them over the newspapers, TV shows.
  5. Each family should teach values to their children’s (boys). Don’t give them extra privileges and support since childhood over girl child
  6. No politics please on this matter. No party flag march or programs. Politicians are the biggest community who adds in spoiling the culture and values
  7. The fast closure and sentence on such cases will bring fear in mind of such people who dare to do these acts
  8. No documentaries and lesson learnt exercises with culprits. Don’t make them heroes they are not good enough to be called humans.
  9. More women empowerment in police and other security agencies for better security and developing trust amongst women in law and police
  10. Try to run such cases under women judges, women police who can understand more better the pain of lady who went through trauma
  11. Scheme to reward judges, police, citizens and other involved agencies in such cases if they close such cases within 45 days or less
  12. Rapists should be treated equivalent to terrorists who dishonor the society norms and rules
  13. Don’t give lessons to women on how to behave and dress. They know better about men than men themselves know themselves
  14. Each family should work on making their girls better off in self-defense art
  15. Help women in such situation as a true citizen because police will reach after some time and at the time of crime you are the first police of the country.

Wonderful Thoughts On Life

 
The most beautiful day: Today
The easiest thing: Equivocate
The biggest obstacle: Fear
The gravest error: give up, to despair
The root of all evils: Egoism
The most beautiful occupation: Work
The worst route to follow: Faintheartedness
The best teachers: Children
The first necessity: TO communicate
The greatest happiness: To be useful to others
The greatest mystery: Death
The worst defect: Bad temper
The most dangerous being: The liar’
The most wretched feeling: The grudge
The most beautiful gift: Forgiveness
The most indispensable: home
The quickest way: The correct one
The most comfortable feeling: Interior peace
The most powerful weapon: The smile
The best remedy: Optimism
The greatest satisfaction: The duty done
The most powerful force: Faith
The most needed beings: The parents
The most beautiful of all: Love
 

Truth Of Life

I read somewhere and though to share with me readers –

Whether you have a Maruti or a BMW, the road remains the same.
Whether you travel economy class or business, your destination doesn’t change.
Whether you have a Titan or a Rolex, the time is the same.
Whether you have Apple Samsung or Lava, people who call you remain the same.
There is nothing wrong in dreaming a luxurious life.
What needs to be taken care of is to not let the NEED become GREED.
Because needs can always be met..but greed can never be fulfilled.